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Roxyluvsme13
10-12-2010, 04:31 PM
Hey guys,

I just wanted to drop by and let everyone know that my grandpa passed away... He went really easy, I'm just not sure what to do without him.

My parents have been divorced since I was 1 and my grandpa and my mom raised me. He took Roxy in for me when we had to move to an apartment, and Roxy loved him to pieces, too.

Now he is with Roxy, my nanny, my aunt, and his family that he has lost over the years.

I'm dealing with it a lot better than I thought I would, but it's hard.

He was 80.

If you all could keep my family in your prayers, I would appreciate it. :love:

Catty1
10-12-2010, 04:35 PM
{{{hugs}}} Prayers to you and your family. I hope your mom is doing ok.:love:

Lillycat
10-12-2010, 04:41 PM
......they will help you during this time......I know it is a hard time.....take care of yourself...

CountryWolf07
10-12-2010, 05:25 PM
Definitely will keep you in my good thoughts... always hard to lose a grandparent, I know, I've been there. Keep yourself well.

Laura's Babies
10-12-2010, 05:41 PM
Sorry for your loss. Grandpa's are special people and it sounds like he was more special than most. May he rest in peace.

Freedom
10-12-2010, 05:48 PM
You are so lucky to have spent so much time with your grandpa during his - and your - lifetimes. Remember all those wonderful times.

I am sorry for your loss.

Taz_Zoee
10-12-2010, 06:14 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. Take peace is knowing he is reunited with Roxy and other family. Hugs!!

jennielynn1970
10-12-2010, 06:16 PM
Hugs to you Bri, you're in my thoughts and prayers.

Karen
10-12-2010, 06:58 PM
We will keep you and your family in our prayers. Get yourself a journal and write down a memory of him every day for the next while, and keep it handy, so maybe some day when you have children of your own, you can share stories with them.

phesina
10-12-2010, 07:09 PM
My deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your beloved grandfather.

Karen
10-12-2010, 08:02 PM
Oh, and sending you a good firm hug.

My Dad is 80, the grandfather of 9 and many "pseudo" grandkids, so if you need an extra Grandpa, I can loan him out. He's here in Massachusetts, but going strong.

Alysser
10-12-2010, 08:29 PM
Bri, I am so sorry to hear about your Grandpa. May he rest in peace, he's with roxy now. :)

Medusa
10-12-2010, 08:30 PM
How fortunate you were to have your grandfather for so long. I knew only one grandparent, my grandfather, and he passed when I was 12. The others died before I was born. What wonderful memories you must have. They'll keep you warm when you're down and tired. I'm sorry for your loss but happy that you had so many good years. :love:

Catlady711
10-12-2010, 09:03 PM
Sorry to hear about your grandpa. :love:*HUGS* Thoughts are with you and the family as you deal with this loss.

Lilith Cherry
10-12-2010, 09:56 PM
My sympathies for the loss of your beloved Grandpa... I know I still miss mine so much even after 40 years but one day we will be together.

Lori Jordan
10-12-2010, 10:55 PM
Roxy i'm very sorry to hear of your Grandfathers passing,Grandfathers are a wonderful blessing,I too have lost mine him and i were very close also.

You and your family are in my thoughts.

chocolatepuppy
10-13-2010, 04:56 AM
I'm sorry Bri. My thoughts and prayers are with you. {hugs}

Catherinedana
10-13-2010, 06:58 AM
How wonderful that you had so many years and so much love from your Grandpa. I never knew either of mine. . .your time with him was so special. My condolences on your loss and a shared smile for your lovely memories.

:love: Cathy

anna_66
10-13-2010, 07:49 AM
So sorry to hear about this Bri. I'll be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers. (((HUGS)))

moosmom
10-13-2010, 08:39 AM
Roxy,

I'm so sorry to hear about your Grandpa. If he was anything like mine, he was VERY special!!!

Love and hugs from the Ploss Fur Crew:love:

Husky_mom
10-13-2010, 09:05 AM
I´m really sorry Bri.. it´s hard going through stuff like this.. but I know your mom, friends and of course all of PT will help you handle this and support you in these difficult times.. ((hugs))

Bonny
10-13-2010, 10:52 AM
Sorry to read of your grandfathers passing. Grandparents are our special teachers in life there to guide us along the way with all the experiences they have had, to pass on the family history, with stories & just be there for us as we are growing up. God bless you & your grandpa for all the good times spent togother. :love:

momcat
10-13-2010, 11:27 AM
Of course this is hard for you, Granddad was a big part of your life. Please accept my sincerest sympathy on the loss of your Grandfather. You and your family are very much in my prayers at this difficult time.

[[[[[HUGS]]]]] for you and your family.

Daisy and Delilah
10-13-2010, 05:32 PM
I'm really sorry to hear this, Bri. I'm sending you some hugs and prayers.
{{{{{HUGS}}}}}

Roxyluvsme13
10-13-2010, 05:32 PM
Thank you all for your kind words and thoughts and prayers. They really helped me feel a little bit better.

I'll attach a picture of me and my grandpa at graduation, though his eyes are closed. I have another one hanging on my bulletin board back in my dorm at UT. There's another one I couldn't find that I was going to share, but I also attached the picture of him walking my mom down the aisle at her wedding :love:. We have lots of pictures of him at home and a lot of memories, it's just really hard realizing that I can't call him anymore or that he won't fuss at me anymore or the little things like that.

luvofallhorses
10-13-2010, 08:45 PM
I am so very sorry for your and your family's loss, Bri. :( You will all be in my thoughts and prayers. (((hugs)))

wanwan1007
10-13-2010, 09:22 PM
I just wanted to say I will remember you and your family in my prayer time. I'm sure you miss your grandfather. Thank God for the wonderful memories and pictures that you have.

krazyaboutkatz
10-14-2010, 11:51 AM
I'm so sorry to hear this.:( My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Please take care. (((HUGS)))

lvpets2002
10-14-2010, 12:07 PM
:love: Bri I am very sorry of your loss of Grandpa.. Sending Lots of Huggss & Prayers..

Marigold2
10-16-2010, 01:12 PM
I am so sorry to hear of your loss.... May the good times stay with you always.

gini
10-16-2010, 02:31 PM
Grandparents are very special. I am so sorry to hear that you have lost your Grandfather. He was lucky to have such a loving Granddaughter! May he rest in peace.

Roxyluvsme13
10-17-2010, 02:25 PM
Thank you all :love:

I know my grandpa is in a better place and he is no longer suffering. I'm coping really well, though cleaning his house and going through things has been a bit difficult for me.

My mom is doing okay as well, she's struggled with it all a lot though.

We will both be okay though, my grandpa is okay and he knows we loved him and we know he loved us.