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lizbud
05-26-2008, 04:56 PM
I'll bet the problem was really with the parents of the other team and
not the kids at all.:)






Girl, 12, told she can't play ball with boys by FOXSports.com


You play ball like a girl.


That used to be an insult. In Beaverton, Oregon, it's becoming more like a fantasy.


Jaime Nared, a 12-year-old girl who stands 6-foot-1, has been told she can no longer play on the boys team of which she has been a member since the second grade, according to a report on the Web site of The Oregonian. Curiously, the timing of her ban came in the wake of a 30-point effort against an all-boys team.

"She scored 30 points," Jaime's mom, Reiko Williams, told The Oregonian. "I remember one play. She stole the ball, dribbled up court and made a behind-the-back pass to a teammate. He missed the lay-in, and she grabbed the rebound and put it in. I think it was just too much for some of those parents.

"The next day, she came home and said they wouldn't let her play with the boys anymore."

Last month, a group of parents from an opposing team told management at The Hoop, a private Beaverton basketball facility that runs the league in which Nared's team competes, that they didn't like Nared playing against their sons. Hoop officials then told Nared's coach, Michael Abraham, that she could no longer play, citing a league rule that prohibits mixed-gender teams, the newspaper reported.

"I never saw the rule," said Abraham, who has coached basketball for 32 years.

"If I'd known about it, I wouldn't have put any of my teams in the league. Besides, she's been playing on this team since second grade, and she plays on our team when we travel around the region. There's never been any problem in any event, not one word of complaint."

Neal Franzer, The Hoop's director of operations, told the paper that parents were "adamant" their complaints had nothing to do with Jaime's skills.

"They said the problem was the boys were playing differently against her because she was a girl," Franzer said, according to the paper. "They'd been taught to not push a girl, so they weren't fouling her hard, and the focus had shifted from playing basketball to noticing a girl was on the floor with them.

"The rule may not have been enforced in past years," Franzer said. "We have new management this year. It's policy, and we enforce policy."

Nared, however, had a different take.

"I think the boys on a specific team don't like me," she said. "It doesn't seem fair."

Abraham was also skeptical about the ruling.

"I can't think of one boy that we've played against that's had a problem with her," he said. "Maybe their dads do. Teach the boys how to handle her. Front her, deny her the ball. You sure as hell don't complain. Listen, she's a girl's girl, but she plays tough. She's no cupcake. She gets knocked down and takes a charge."

DJFyrewolf36
05-26-2008, 06:23 PM
Seems to me the boys have a case of sour grapes lol.
Since when is hard fouling encuraged anyhow? A foul is a foul after all :rolleyes:
I think the problem is with the parents of her team too. A lot of parents want their kid to be a superstar and get all bent out of shape when their kid isn't and will cry and whine and come up with all sorts of excuses to ban players that are better.
I'll bet the "policy" will change as soon as her former team starts losing games lol

RICHARD
05-26-2008, 08:16 PM
Please....

What a bunch of AHs.....

If she played on the opposing team they would love having her on it.

I had to LOL about the "fouling hard" point of the article. If I had a kid on the losing team I'd dress him in a skirt and tell him to go play like THAT girl.

What a bunch of sissies-the parents I mean!