Catty1
08-05-2007, 01:28 PM
Moosmom and others...
http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=130913&highlight=making
After we had had that talk I mentioned, and looked forward to enjoying our friendship, he wasn't looking for anyoneand would be best single for a while...as recently as July 23 I had an email that said, 'Yep, still on for the 11th'...
I got an email on Wednesday after an IM saying he would send me an email with some details, and that he wouldn't be able to talk with me any more.
The email said that our relationship had meant the world to him, he had met someone and they were both confident that their association would lead to marriage, and they each were ending relationships that might be a distraction to a 100% commitment to each other.
He said he never could have given 100% per cent to me. DUH REALLY? :rolleyes:
Anyway, if I had a garden I'd use the contents of the email to enrich the soil. I waited several days, then sent an email (he will read but not reply) noting how many things now added up; that he never said WHEN he met this woman; listing all the dishonesties I perceived from him, whether they were or not. My gut RARELY lies.
Next day, my boss finally got arrogant one inch too far, and I left him a blasting note, we exchanged professional but angry emails, and I am chilling out for the long weekend. I had NEVER pushed back at him before, but I had had enough.
A friend took me to an out-of-town bistro Friday night to see a friend of hers in a jazz trio (Old Standard Jazz). Perfect remedy, and I thank her here.
Cause after Wed and Thurs, I was shaking inside....agitated, jittery, angry.
Just wanted to update; there is one friend I talk to about this, but I just wanted to vent a bit here to get the poison out.
thanks
http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthread.php?t=130913&highlight=making
After we had had that talk I mentioned, and looked forward to enjoying our friendship, he wasn't looking for anyoneand would be best single for a while...as recently as July 23 I had an email that said, 'Yep, still on for the 11th'...
I got an email on Wednesday after an IM saying he would send me an email with some details, and that he wouldn't be able to talk with me any more.
The email said that our relationship had meant the world to him, he had met someone and they were both confident that their association would lead to marriage, and they each were ending relationships that might be a distraction to a 100% commitment to each other.
He said he never could have given 100% per cent to me. DUH REALLY? :rolleyes:
Anyway, if I had a garden I'd use the contents of the email to enrich the soil. I waited several days, then sent an email (he will read but not reply) noting how many things now added up; that he never said WHEN he met this woman; listing all the dishonesties I perceived from him, whether they were or not. My gut RARELY lies.
Next day, my boss finally got arrogant one inch too far, and I left him a blasting note, we exchanged professional but angry emails, and I am chilling out for the long weekend. I had NEVER pushed back at him before, but I had had enough.
A friend took me to an out-of-town bistro Friday night to see a friend of hers in a jazz trio (Old Standard Jazz). Perfect remedy, and I thank her here.
Cause after Wed and Thurs, I was shaking inside....agitated, jittery, angry.
Just wanted to update; there is one friend I talk to about this, but I just wanted to vent a bit here to get the poison out.
thanks