carole
07-18-2007, 07:19 PM
Gosh where do i begin, i am so mad and upset right now, i have just heard through the grapevine, my husband's niece Carly, the one who had the baby girl in Jan. 2007 has been neglecting her baby, I am not totally suprised but saddened all the same, her boyfriend got released from prison a few months ago, and then her flat was raided for stolen goods, no doubt to do with him, but i have heard a rumour she is on drugs, possibly P.
None of this is a huge shock to me, but all the same i had hoped for better, when i had visited her sometime ago, i had bad vibes then, but saw then that the baby looked well and healthy,luckily my husbands sister is keeping an eye on things with the baby, i had offered my help many times, but she never took up on it ,i kinda know why now as she knows how disapproving i would be of her lifestyle etc.
She has left my area and in a lot of ways i am glad, i don't mean to sound heartless, but i have my own daughter to think of and my husband is estranged from his whole family anyhow, long story,and how he wants it to stay,for good reasons obviously.
I really hope the baby is taken away from her and raised either by my husbands sister or a deserving family,truthfully she is not near mature enough or deserving of this beautiful child,staying with her mother can only bring her harm,trust me i know the situation, this is not a good one for the baby at all.
Why oh why do people have children when they cannot be responsible enough to care for them.
Sorry bear with me , i just had to vent, i am so hopping mad inside,and overwhelmed with saddness.
None of this is a huge shock to me, but all the same i had hoped for better, when i had visited her sometime ago, i had bad vibes then, but saw then that the baby looked well and healthy,luckily my husbands sister is keeping an eye on things with the baby, i had offered my help many times, but she never took up on it ,i kinda know why now as she knows how disapproving i would be of her lifestyle etc.
She has left my area and in a lot of ways i am glad, i don't mean to sound heartless, but i have my own daughter to think of and my husband is estranged from his whole family anyhow, long story,and how he wants it to stay,for good reasons obviously.
I really hope the baby is taken away from her and raised either by my husbands sister or a deserving family,truthfully she is not near mature enough or deserving of this beautiful child,staying with her mother can only bring her harm,trust me i know the situation, this is not a good one for the baby at all.
Why oh why do people have children when they cannot be responsible enough to care for them.
Sorry bear with me , i just had to vent, i am so hopping mad inside,and overwhelmed with saddness.