ok I am a bit tipsy and wont apologise

[DrKym]

I just heard today my brother is dead.
He was 44, left 3 beautiful daughters and an amazing wife.
It is my anniversary with Jas today.
I will most likely ask Karen to delete this thread, my sister is here from Canada, her wedding is Saturday. Seems out of place with this news. Thomas died from a brain anyueism (sp) I am an academic Dr. so forgive me the misspelling.
I talked with Donna(Mooshoosmom) and I owe her an apology as she was hoping for a call, sorry hun, haven't really thought about it.
Ok I am babbling and I apologise. I truly cannot think right now.

[Cinder & Smoke]

:(
:(

So very sorry about the loss of your Brother.
Rest In Peace, Bro.

{{{Hugs}}}

/s/ :( Phred

[luckies4me]

No need to apologize. I am so sorry for your loss. :(

[Sevaede]

Indeed! There is no need to apologize. :(

**HUGS** for you. I'm so sorry. :(

[jackmilliesmom]

I sympathise completely with you and your family and your brother's family. My father died suddenly also he was 47 and died on the side of the road from a heart attack. It hurts deep and bad but as time goes on you realise that it is better than seeing them linger and in pain.

I send you all a very warm ((((((((((((((large hug))))))))))))))) - take care and be safe.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

I am so very sorry that you have lost your brother. There is no need to apologise or have the thread deleted - PT is the place to pour your heart out, we are all here for you.

Sincere condolences to your brother's wife and children too

[Alysser]

Kym, you've been going through so much. I am so sorry for your brother. No need to apologize. (((hugs)))

[critter crazy]

Kym, I am so sorry!! Such a horrible thing to have to go through! Prayers headed your way for you and your family! :(

[elizabethann]

My deepest sympathies to you & your family.

Perhaps a candle can be lit at the wedding in memory of your brother. He will be there in spirit.

Take care.

[Prairie Purrs]

Oh, I'm so sorry! What a tragedy for you and your family.

I'll be in Illinois by late Saturday. If you need me to come critter sit next week, let me know--you have my cell phone number, and I'll let you know if the number changes after the move.

[finn's mom]

how tragic. 44 is far too young. :( i'm so sorry for your family's loss.

[Freedom]

Such an emotional roller coaster! No wonder you can't see straight. Should be a nice happy anniversary day with a soaring buiild up to the wedding this weekend and . . . plunge down the hill faster than you can imagine.

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that having your family near to you during this time will help you get through this difficult time.

[cyber-sibes]

My deepest sympathy to your family. :(

[pitc9]

I'm so sorry for your shocking loss.

[sirrahbed]

What a shock to hear about your brother :( ((HUGS))) to you.

[4 Dog Mother]

What terrible news! I am sorry for your loss of your brother. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

[Catty1]

Kym

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{hugs}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

[Lori Jordan]

I am so sorry for your loss i too lost my brother to a snomobile accident.

[Queen of Poop]

Absolutely no need to apologize. No need at all. You have my deepest sympathy. I know how difficult this is. I lost my brother and my sister the same year 3 months apart. Allow yourself the time to grieve. But as mentioned before, a candle at the wedding would be beneficial to all involved. Please take care. If I can be of any help at all please let me know.
:(

[Randi]

I'm so sorry to hear you lost your brother. :( You don't have to apologize at all. I know what a shock it is.

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

May your brother rest is peace!

[Taz_Zoee]

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. You and your family are in my thoughts at this difficult time. Please, you have nothing to apologize for here.

[DrKym]

Thank you all, I am talking with Andrea his wife as to what we are to do with him. He wanted cremation,
The rest of the family wants a headstone at least even if the ashes aren't buried.

[smokey the elder]

I'm so sorry about your brother.

[k9krazee]

Oh Kym, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts. (((((hugs))))

[K9soul]

My very deepest sympathies to you and your family. Please do not feel you should apologize, or have the thread deleted. We are all here for you, to offer love and condolences. I cannot imagine the incredible shock this has to be for you and your family :( I will hold you, your brother and your family in my prayers.

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

OMG, I am lost at words... :eek: . What a terrible thing to happen.... .
Hugs to all the family......

[cassiesmom]

Dr. G., my thoughts and prayers to you. I think a headstone gives family a place to go and remember their loved one. I have a friend who died in his early 30s from complications of undiagnosed diabetes, and although he was cremated, we had a forsythia bush planted in the park as a remembrance. It is a nice place to go and think happy memories, especially this time of year when it's blooming. If you need anything, please say the word.

[Blue_Frog]

<<< hugs >>> I'm so sorry Kym ... my thoughts are with you and your family :(

[gini]

I cannot even imagine the shock and pain that you are feeling. Please do not apologize.

I am so sorry for your huge loss.

[Catty1]

Kym, as you know, I lost my sister last year. It was somewhat expected, so I can understand that the shock of something this sudden is like a cavern swallowing you up.

I believe that everyone in your family - from what I know of you and your wonderful spirit and heart - would know that they were loved by their family members.

That your brother knew this is a wonder, and I hope it brings you some peace.

I hope that the wedding has a beauty about it, as a positive thing in life.

HUGS again to you.

[Ginger's Mom]

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. What an emotional time for you and your family.

[caseysmom]

I am so sorry for your loss.

[Daisy and Delilah]

I'm so sorry to hear this terrible news, Kym. {{{{{HUGS}}}}} :(

[Pawla]

I am so sorry for the loss you and your family have suffered. It is so very hard to lose someone you love. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

[Karen]

So sorry to hear about your brother. You will be in our prayers over the next several days, with the emotional rollercoaster you've been thrust upon.

[mruffruff]

Kym, I'm so sorry to hear about your brother. I hope you can find a little peace amongst the activities of the wedding.

[ramanth]

I am so very sorry for your loss. :( :( :(

My best friends mom was the picture of perfect health and was taken suddenly by an anyerism. It's really not fair.

[moosmom]

Oh Kym,

There is NO need to apologize. I am so sorry you're having to go through all of this at once, let alone at separate times. Things happen for a reason honey. Your brother's passing definitely has a reason, as strange at that may sound. What that reason is you may NEVER now. I still have lots of questions about when my Dad was found dead.

I wish I had the funds to fly out there and give you the hugest hug I can. All I can do is offer my deepest sympathy and love, to one of my best friends.

((((((((HUGS)))))))) and loads of love

Donna

[Miss Z]

Oh Kym, I am so sorry. Please accept my heartfelt condolences. :(

[Vela]

I'm so very sorry for your loss. It's always hard to lose a loved one but I do think it so much more difficult when they are young or it's unexpected. My thoughts and prayers are with your family through all of this.

[Logan]

Kym, I am so sorry for your loss. :(

[shais_mom]

that's a lot to take in a short time - I'm sure you have nothing to apologize for. God bless you and your family.

[slick]

Dr G,
I never know quite what to say in threads like this. I struggle to say something comforting but in the end I can only offer up my thoughts and prayers to you and the family.

{{{hugs}}}

[Dorothy39]

Oh Dear, What to say, ----- what to say~~~~~~ :(

Oh Kym, I am so deeply sorry and I Offer you my Sincere Condolences and My Heartfelt Prayers~

Take Care~ {{{Insert Big Hug Here}}}}

[Marigold2]

Oh Kym,

I am so sorry.

[*LabLoverKEB*]

Oh, Kym.... I am just at a complete loss at what to say... I am so deeply sorry for your loss. My heart and prayers go out to you and your family... :( :( :(

[krazyaboutkatz]

Kym, I'm so sorry to hear this sad news.:( You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. Please take care. ((((HUGS))))

[DrKym]

My brothers wife and children thank you all as do I.
His memorial is on Wednsday, he will be cremated and then half flown to the family plot. His wife decided on a small headstone although she will keep a portion of his ashes with her.

Thank you all again.
Kym

[cassiesmom]

Hello, Dr. G and family, I just wanted to tell you I'm thinking about you today. (hug)

[Catty1]

Hi, Kym...wondering if the wedding went ahead...people there in my prayers.

HUGS

[DrKym]

The wedding was called off as, we really couldn't muster the mood. Thank you all for keeping me close by. There are so many threads i need to reply to it just seems so overwhelming right now.
Things are getting better each day, it is just that I don't really feel like getting up and doing anything.

Thank you all.

[Husky_mom]

don´t feel the pressure to post....... take it slow..... and plese know you are in our thoughts as well as your brothers family....... may time give you the peace and confort for such sad happening.......

((hugs))

[Prairie Purrs]

Kym, I'm in Illinois now, so please let me know if there's anything at all that you need. My cell phone number is the same for now.

Sending you warm thoughts and healing energy.

[animal_rescue]

Hey Kym, sending you and the family good thoughts and *hugs*

[kimlovescats]

Just now seeing this thread for the very first time! I am so very sorry, Kym!

Hugs,
Kim :(