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sparks19
12-21-2006, 10:29 AM
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Wednesday December 20, 2006
School accuses 5-year-old of sex harassment
by ERIN CUNNINGHAM
[email protected]

HAGERSTOWN - A kindergarten student was accused earlier this month of sexually harassing a classmate at Lincolnshire Elementary School, an accusation that will remain on his record until he moves to middle school.


Washington County Public Schools spokeswoman Carol Mowen said the definition of sexual harassment used by the school system is, "unwelcome sexual advances, request for sexual favors and/or other inappropriate verbal, written or physical conduct of a sexual nature directed toward others."


Mowen said that definition comes from the Maryland State Department of Education.


According to a school document provided by the boy's father, the 5-year-old pinched a girl's buttocks on Dec. 8 in a hallway at the school south of Hagerstown.


Charles Vallance, the boy's father, said he was unable to explain to his son what he had done.


"He knows nothing about sex," Vallance said. "There's no way to explain what he's been written up for. He knows it as playing around. He doesn't know it as anything sexual at all."


The incident was described as "sexual harassment" on the school form.


School officials consider a student's age and the specific action when determining what administrative action to take, Mowen said.


Lincolnshire Principal Darlene Teach and Mowen said they were unable to discuss he incident involving the Lincolnshire student.


Teach said any student, regardless of grade level, can be cited for sexual harassment.


"Anytime a student touches another student inappropriately, it could be sexual harassment," Teach said.


School administrators at a Texas school in November suspended a 4-year-old student for inappropriately touching a teacher's aide after the prekindergarten student hugged the woman.


"It's important to understand a child may not realize that what he or she is doing may be considered sexual harassment, but if it fits under the definition, then it is, under the state's guidelines," Mowen said. "If someone has been told this person does not want this type of touching, it doesn't matter if it's at work or at school, that's sexual harassment."


The incident will be included in the boy's file while he remains at Lincolnshire, but Mowen said those files do not follow students when they move on to middle school.


She described the incident as a "learning opportunity."


During the 2005-06 school year, 28 kindergarten students in Maryland were suspended for sex offenses, including sexual assault, sexual harassment and sexual activity, according to state data. Fifteen of those suspensions were for sexual harassment.


During the 2005-06 school year, one Washington County prekindergarten student was suspended from school, and 12 of the county's kindergartners were suspended for various offenses, according to state data.

Anyone else think this is totally unnessecary? I mean YES inappropriate behaviour should be dealt with but to suspend a 5 year old child for something he doesn't even understand? The article says 28 Kindergarten students have been suspended so far. How sad. These kids must be so confused.

One part says a child was reprimanded for hugging a teachers aide.... when did that become inappropriate? If you don't want kids hugging you then you shouldn't be a teachers Aide.... afterall you are helping them learn new things and they look up to you. They should be prepared for affectionate children. I'm sure that child hugs his mom and dad and his friends and I am pretty sure it is NOT sexual. I'm very disappointed with this.

RICHARD
12-21-2006, 12:15 PM
LOLOLOLOLOL,

Sexual harrassment?


Please......


At least it won't go on his permanent record.

animal_rescue
12-21-2006, 01:08 PM
Wow that's just ridiculous... I remember in the 1st grade I gave my teacher a kiss goodbye on the last day of school(on the cheek) and often kiss my friends goodbye(on the cheek). In no way was it meant to be sexual. It's just my way of saying goodbye.

I'll be darned if my little sister gets suspended for hugging someone.

kittycats_delight
12-21-2006, 01:24 PM
this is beyond rediculous...this is down right outragous. I mean come on you are talking about a 5 year old. They copy what they see adults do how the hell does the child know it is not "correct" if adults do it and laugh? Society has really taken some things WAY too far and this is definately one of them.


Please people get a life and better yet get a BRAIN !!!!!

GreyhoundGirl
12-21-2006, 01:50 PM
:rolleyes: Reminds me of the people sueing McDonalds because they're fat. I mean, :rolleyes: :rolleyes: :rolleyes: Totally not his fault.

Whoever is reporting this needs more things to fill their day.

mugsy
12-21-2006, 01:51 PM
That's just assinine. How ridiculous is that? We have kids bringing guns and knives to school and we are worried about a 5 year old who has no concept of what's going on.

I did find this quote interesting though:

According to a school document provided by the boy's father, the 5-year-old pinched a girl's buttocks on Dec. 8 in a hallway at the school south of Hagerstown.


Charles Vallance, the boy's father, said he was unable to explain to his son what he had done.

Why can't he just tell the kid it's not nice to pinch someone's backside and leave it at that for now?

kittycats_delight
12-21-2006, 01:55 PM
Why can't he just tell the kid it's not nice to pinch someone's backside and leave it at that for now?

For me it seems the father couldn't tell the child because it is posssibly a habit the father has with the mother or girlfriend and just doesn't know how to tell him it is not nice to do to people when he himself does it.

Just a thought.

Husky_mom
12-21-2006, 01:56 PM
then every basketball, football, baseball, soccer, etc. players woulde be doing the same?? :rolleyes: .....come on people......there is a certain line between play and harrasment..........and a kid no way knows that........

some people....... :rolleyes:

Giselle
12-21-2006, 02:02 PM
This is so STUPID. As the guardians and teachers of these young children, we're supposed to be teaching them appropriate and inappropriate touching. Jeez! How is suspending a kindergarten child going to teach them anything about appropriate and inappropriate touch? It's just going to confuse and scare them. What a sadistic move on the school's part!

king2005
12-21-2006, 02:25 PM
Wow, guess I should start screaming rape everytime Gwyneith put her head or hand on my boobs

Argranade
12-21-2006, 02:39 PM
Hahaha that's so stupid,

Come on the kid is only 5 haha, uhh .. what next .....

News alert!

A 7 year old girl was suspened for drawing a banana that looked wrong!,

The parents had no comment, but the teachers where shocked! :rolleyes:

GreyhoundGirl
12-21-2006, 02:45 PM
Hahaha that's so stupid,

Come on the kid is only 5 haha, uhh .. what next .....

News alert!

A 7 year old girl was suspened for drawing a banana that looked wrong!,

The parents had no comment, but the teachers where shocked! :rolleyes:


LOL :D I wouldn't be surprised :p

Pembroke_Corgi
12-21-2006, 03:12 PM
I'm just a tad bit confused here- the child doesn't understand what happened, so how is he expected to know what kind of of behavior is wrong?

Catsnclay
12-21-2006, 08:29 PM
omg.............WHAT is this world comming to?????!!!!! :rolleyes: :rolleyes:

cyber-sibes
12-21-2006, 09:47 PM
Lets give the kid a complex.

critter crazy
12-21-2006, 09:53 PM
Absolutely retarded!!!:mad:



People are getting way out of control!! How the heck can you punish a child for something he dosent even understand?? :mad:

Twisterdog
12-22-2006, 01:22 AM
That's one of the most ridiculous things I've ever heard. That's like me suing you because your dog sniffed my dog's butt. :rolleyes:

Miss Z
12-22-2006, 05:53 AM
I don't have many other words other than oh dear, oh dear, oh dear. :rolleyes:

The child must have seen his father doing it or perhaps saw it on TV. Doesn't make him a young offender. The world is so uptight these days.

Pam
12-22-2006, 05:56 AM
That's pretty pathetic. Next we won't even be allowed to hug our kids or grandkids for fear that it will be misinterpreted by the child. :rolleyes:

Laura's Babies
12-22-2006, 09:19 AM
That's what the world is coming to, that children can't be children anymore. I think the "authorities" at that school should be fired for even using the word "sexual" in regards to a 5 year old! What kind of mind do they have to even see that as sexual?

lizbud
12-22-2006, 10:41 AM
Why can't he just tell the kid it's not nice to pinch someone's backside and leave it at that for now?


I agree with Molly. :)

lvpets2002
12-22-2006, 10:48 AM
:( Thank you & well said Michelle.. Just think of whats next :rolleyes: ..
this is beyond rediculous...this is down right outragous. I mean come on you are talking about a 5 year old. They copy what they see adults do how the hell does the child know it is not "correct" if adults do it and laugh? Society has really taken some things WAY too far and this is definately one of them.


Please people get a life and better yet get a BRAIN !!!!!