forget it

[king2005]

I asked a question & it was too sexist so I deleted it :(

[Lady's Human]

Ummm, who's your friend been dating? I thought that was a required skill!

[Muddy4paws]

I never liked them before I met my boyfriend, Its a skill he has :p Its like an unwritten rule... Men give backrubs and sympathy whether they like it or not :p

[king2005]

Ummm, who's your friend been dating? I thought that was a required skill!

Not sure I want to know.


I did ask her why not & she answered Lazy

[critter crazy]

ohhh my hubby gave me one just last night!!!! :D

[king2005]

no point...

[moosmom]

guys don't like to give backrubs

No, they don't like to GIVE them, but ask a guy FOR a backrub and he's nekkid quicker than you can blink!!! :p

I was dating a guy and we were at his sister's house at a party. There was this girl there and she proceeded to announce that she's a massage therapist. Man, I had NEVER seen anything like it. All the guys in the room sat there with their shirts off waiting their turns. A pathetic bunch they were.

Needless to say, I'm no longer dating the idiot (yes, my date also waited his turn while I stewed, having no way home from the party).

[Vette]

I guess it depends on the guy..

my dad gives my mom back/shoulder rubs all the time

[Lady's Human]

If someone had started a thread stating "women don't (pick your subject)", they would be getting flamed for making a generalist sexist statement.

There are men who give backrubs, there are men who don't. I give Jen backrubs all the time, she does the same for me.

[Karen]

Your friend is way off base, tell her she should be careful not to make gender-biased statements like that. Plus, that way she's giving guys a pass to get away with it. I know guys (straight and gay) who like to give and receive backrubs, and those who do not, pretty evenly split.

[Oggyflute]

If someone had started a thread stating "women don't (pick your subject)", they would be getting flamed for making a generalist sexist statement.

There are men who give backrubs, there are men who don't. I give Jen backrubs all the time, she does the same for me.
I'm with you there LH.

[carole]

My hubby often has to give me back rubs as i suffer from aching muscles all the time,so for him it is no big deal and i too will give him one if he needs it as well. :)