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4 Dog Mother
03-22-2006, 08:34 PM
I gave birth to my second child, our only son, Rob. For those of you who don't know, he died this past summer. Tomorrow will be a sad day for Carl, me, Amy (Cincy'mom), her husband, Ralph, Christy (Dakota's mommy), her husband Brian and Jasmine, her daughter.

He has such a silly little boy, always talking and being silly. He grew into a quiet, shy, very smart teenager and then into a handsome, beautiful young man. We still don't know what happened, why he died when he did. We only know we will miss him every day the rest of our lives.

Happy Birthday, Rob!! We miss you and love you. Mom & Dad

(PLease keep us in prayer tomorrow!)

Cinder & Smoke
03-22-2006, 08:47 PM
Hi God ~

Did You member to ask our GranMom ta Bake a Kake fur Rob?

Prolly otta send a Big {{{GodsHug}}} down here fur Mom & Dad.

An wun fur Amy & Christy, too.

Please tell Rob we all *miss* him - an Happie Birfday!

THanks, God!

/s/ the Prayer Pups

..

luvofallhorses
03-22-2006, 08:48 PM
you all will be in my thoughts and prayers tomorrow. (((hugs)))

captain
03-22-2006, 09:10 PM
You will all be in my thoughts, and prayers tomorrow ........ (((hugss to you all))))

Ginger's Mom
03-22-2006, 09:43 PM
{{{Hugs}}} to you and your family. I will definitely keep you and your whole family in my prayers tomorrow.

Corinna
03-22-2006, 09:57 PM
Prayers going out to you and all. Hope you all have found some peace.

moosmom
03-22-2006, 10:42 PM
You will all be in my thoughts and prayers tomorrow on this somber day.

shais_mom
03-23-2006, 12:04 AM
hugs to you all.

{{hugs}}
Staci, Keegan, Kylie, Kloe

pnance
03-23-2006, 12:24 AM
Hugs and prayers to your family tomorrow.

cloverfdx
03-23-2006, 12:45 AM
You will all be in my thoughts tomorrow {{hugs}}.

Crazy-Cat-Lover
03-23-2006, 12:47 AM
All of you will be in my thoughts tomorrow. ((((HUGS))))

gini
03-23-2006, 12:49 AM
I cannot even imagine your ongoing grief. The only comfort that I can offer you is that surely, you have an angel in heaven looking down on you - and taking care of you.

My heartfelt prayers are with you.

Pawsitive Thinking
03-23-2006, 04:03 AM
My thoughts are with you {{{HUGS}}}

anna_66
03-23-2006, 07:51 AM
{{{HUGS}} and loving thoughts being sent your family's way today Diana.

Laura's Babies
03-23-2006, 09:03 AM
My thought are with you. I too, lost a son when he was 17 years old. His cause of death was unknown and that was the hardest part. He hadn't been well for 2 years prior to his death and I kept taking him to the doctor and she kept telling me he was doing it for attention and I knew he wasn't. Test after test came up with nothing... Then he died.... still don't know why. So, I know your pain. He would have been 40 last December 22.

pitc9
03-23-2006, 09:05 AM
You all will be in my thoughts.

Jadapit
03-23-2006, 09:21 AM
I can not imagine the pain of losing a child. I'm so sorry. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers. {{{Hugs}}}

Tubby & Peanut's Mom
03-23-2006, 09:33 AM
I cannot even imagine your ongoing grief. The only comfort that I can offer you is that surely, you have an angel in heaven looking down on you - and taking care of you.
That is a beautiful thought, Gini.

Sending thoughts and prayers and {{{hugs}}} to the whole family today. :(

Edwina's Secretary
03-23-2006, 09:40 AM
I wish peace for all your family.....

lv4dogs
03-23-2006, 09:45 AM
Yous will all be in my thoughts. {{hugs}}

Lobodeb
03-23-2006, 10:01 AM
My heart goes out to you and your family. Unfortunately, I know all too well the pain you are going through, not of losing a child, but losing a beloved family member so suddenly and tragically.

May God keep you close and help you celebrate Rob's life and not his death.

((((((((((((((((((((HUGS))))))))))))))))))))))

Karen
03-23-2006, 10:06 AM
Our prayers are with you.

Cataholic
03-23-2006, 01:06 PM
Thinking of you.

{{{{{hugs}}}}
Johanna

My Peanuts
03-23-2006, 01:19 PM
(((HUGS))) to you. You and your family will be in my thoughts.

jackie
03-23-2006, 02:59 PM
You and your family will be in my thoughts.

To all Parents

"I'll lend you for a while a child of mine," He said.
"For you to love the while he lives and mourn for when he's dead.
It may be six or seven years, or twenty-two or three,
But will you, till I call him back, take care of him for me?
He'll bring his charms to gladden you, and should his stay be brief,
You'll have his lovely memories as solace for your grief."

"I cannot promise he will stay; since all from earth return,
But there are lessons taught down there I want this child to learn.
I've looked the wide world over in My search for teachers true
And from the throngs that crowd life's lanes I have chosen you.
Now will you give him all your love, not think the labor vain,
Nor hate Me when I come to call to take him back again?"

"I fancied that I heard them say, "Dear Lord, Thy will be done!
For all the joy Thy child shall bring, the risk of grief we run.
We'll shelter him with tenderness, we'll love him while we may,
And for the happiness we've known, forever grateful stay;
But should the angels call for him much sooner than we've planned,
We'll brave the bitter grief that comes and try to understand!"

-Edgar Guest

Maya & Inka's mommy
03-23-2006, 03:19 PM
my thought are going to you too! Losing a child never heals :( ! My parents lost their first child, a boy too, when he was only 3. It is almost 60 years ago now, but I know it still hurts so much! I have the same thought as Gini!
My little brother is now the gardian Angel of my family! So is your beloved son Rob!
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ramanth
03-23-2006, 03:21 PM
*hugs*

petslover
03-23-2006, 03:53 PM
I am so sorry. I will have you in my thoughts and prayers tomorrow. Please know that he is looking down on you all with a smile because of what a great family he has.

lizbud
03-23-2006, 04:52 PM
My God grant you a peaceful heart.You & the family will be in my
thoughts & prayers. (((HUGS))) Liz.

cyber-sibes
03-23-2006, 05:18 PM
Sending ((((((((hugs))))))))) for your whole family, Diana. God bless you all.

Joannie
03-23-2006, 05:42 PM
My deepest condolences, I am thinking of you and your family. Joann

chrangharris
03-23-2006, 06:04 PM
Praying for you

Cincy'sMom
03-23-2006, 07:16 PM
Happy Birthday, Little brother. We sure do miss you.

*LabLoverKEB*
03-23-2006, 08:08 PM
I am so sorry that your family had to go through this awful tragedy. :( :( :(
I will deffineatley keep you, and your family in my thoughts and prayers.